Why are people shallow when it comes to relationships?

Why is that some people (especially younger people it seems -say university age)are so concerned with the way someone looks, and don't seem to care if someone has a lovely personality?





I am overweight (I know I need to lose weight so I am working on it - it isn't easy though and it is going to take a lot of time) and I know it could be putting people off, but I cannot help feel that if someone really cared it would wouldn't matter, so what is it that makes so many people ';shallow'; (for want of a better word)?Why are people shallow when it comes to relationships?
People are greedy. We want the best of everything without having to work for it. Unfortunately for alot of people, having something that looks the best vs actually being the best quality makes them feel better about their own appearance...which actually has little to do with real happiness.





Don't lose weight for some dumb gal - lose it for your own wellness. The right person will love you regardless (and will help you lose weight because she wants you around for a long time)...and if you don't have to go through a bunch of crappy women to find her, well - you are better off than most.





Later on in life, and once the realization of our own mortality hits us, we become less focused on what looks good - and more focused on what IS good!





Good luck man.Why are people shallow when it comes to relationships?
Being overweight is not only unattractive, but it's also unhealthy.


And why would they settle for someone with a lovely personality that they are not attracted to, when they can be with someone whose looks and personality they do love??





And I bet when you are no better.... I bet you wonder why the pretty girls are so shallow and completely disregard the overweight or unattractive girls... so go for them. Lots of them have great personalities and want a relationship just as much as you do.
I don't know it's looks and appearances that makes people shallow. Unfortunately there's nothing we can't do. We either expect ourselves for who we are or just change to satisfy others. It's one of those painful facts of life.
well, there are still great people out there who care about the inside, rather than on the outisde. Those are the best people to hang around, I think shallow people just have nothing better do to to be honest haha it sucks but you gotta just ignore them :)
That's a good question, I think that people are judgmental on other people because they feel bad about themselves and try to find absolute perfection in others, which is not possible because no one is perfect. It's sad but true.
Its how some ppl are.

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