In beginning relationships do you define your words & Identify your expectations??

Do you clarify what you are saying and what you understand about what is being said and what is expected of you???In beginning relationships do you define your words %26amp; Identify your expectations??
We are trying to touch the truth beneath what is being expressed through us. Expectations relate what we think we need from each other. That flies in the face of what God wants for us. Just saying how we feel and asking for our purpose to be revealed keeps it joyfulIn beginning relationships do you define your words %26amp; Identify your expectations??
In the beginning its Baby steps and Baby talks only. No one can say if the relationship is going to last, in the beginning itself. So make no commitments, no promises that would make one look like a fool later! Let a relationship develop on its own. People change, perspectives change, situations change, conditions change, expectations change too...then how can one be sure of anything?





Just be very honest with yourself and others, and not to forget being decent too! That's the only demand any relationship makes/expects. Time will take care of the rest...
Not right away.


Usually, at the start of a relationship, you're trying to get a feel for the other person. If you immediately start saying, ';My goals are to get married and have three children,'; or ';You say you're happy, but what does happy mean to you?'; you can easily terrify someone who might otherwise like you.


It's fair to ask, ';Hey, is this just fun or are you hoping to see if it goes somewhere?'; just to see if you're both there for the same reason.


As the relationship progresses, then you can start answering the hard questions. If your partner isn't interested in such issues, move on.
No. I think it is totally wrong to do that. When you start a relationship you still got so much to learn from the other person you should take your time to see really what kind of person it is and which are his/her ideas. If you start pointing out everything you are expecting in the future of the relationship right when it is starting, the other person can take that as like you are in a rush, not taking your time, and you are desperate for something which is not good. You can point out somethings like which are some of the things you dislike or which you like the most. But telling all your plans, like getting married, having _ number of children, buying this car, living in this town, etc.. that can make the other person feel pressured to something and that is never good...
Usually not at first... I think the other person has a similar answer to me. You need to feel the other person out a bit and them you. Leave a few things to interpretation, that's what makes it fun. There is no rule book. As you get more serious then see what the expectations are...
In beginning relationships, my emphasis is on the other - listening to and understanding the other and discerning what is truly important to the other.
The avoidance of both has contributed to many a successful marriage.
my problem is i answer much and ask less....so people may know me soon ...but i am always late in knowing them...sometime it helps ...people who dont like me move away fast...and who likes me remains till end.