Do all relationships go down in the drain?

It started off perfect, now our relationship took a whole turn around. I was really happy at first, now I am so unhappy. Do all relationships go down the drain?Do all relationships go down in the drain?
i hope not. I am getting married soon...hope we stay happy for a long time!Do all relationships go down in the drain?
It is harder in today's world to stay happy in a relationship, too much stress, temptation, and everyone is so self-centered they can't learn to compromise, or put up with little irritations. We all expect fairy tales and romance and that there will never be problems and that is unrealistic. No one is being taught how to deal with the complex issues that are common in modern marriage. It just doesn't work the way it did a generation ago, but for some reason no one is doing anything to change things for the better.





I think you are probably in the majority since 60% of marriages end in divorce.
All relationships start off perfect. You have to work to keep yours from going down the drain.





I have always looked at it this way: if you have to work on the relationship and you're not even married, leave. If you can't make it together before marriage, then you're not going to make it afterwards.


Usually, both parties are on their best behavior while dating.
Resist Despair! Not ALL relationships go down the drain. Having said that, finding the ';right'; one is a long term project. You must know yourself WELL, you must grow into your fullness (or at least have fertile ground in your mind and heart) before you will recognize THE guy/man. Equally important is you knowing how to be a Best Friend to him.





My husband is my best friend.


I am his best friend.


This is what makes us strong.


This is what keeps our relationship happy.





We've been together for 10 years, married for almost 8 years.





Patience is the key to finding the relationship you want.
That is why they have something called dating.. If it works great if it doesn't move on...Just cause you dating a person and you are getting along does not meant it is going to work.. Time tell all and then some. If it doesnt work write down the name of previous relationships and see what they have in common.. You might be choosing the wrong person.. Reflect on your choices and change it.
No. Not if it is the right person. Alot of people say that cause u get together young that it wont last, or u will get bored. I have been with my hubby since I was 16 %26amp; I am almost 29. So I think if u are in love %26amp; its ';The One'; That you will be happy. Of course all relationships have Ups %26amp; downs and need work.
No, something must of just came up with him. If he is seeming down ask him, if he is acting normal like he does everyday tell him how you feel. It's not going down the drain though, it just seems like it.


Feels like Autumn, huh?





Just talk it out with him,


I'm sure everything is fine.
i think everything has a beginning and an end! some things last long but nothing is forever. this is how i view relationships..enjoy it while it last so when it ends i say it was fun and now i am looking for the new venture..its millions of people out here and i dont kill myself if something isnt working..NEXT!
well...not all, but sometimes we get soo comfortable in the relationship that we forget that we need to pay attention to it, we take for granted things that we shouldn't have, and everything ...ends up going all down the drain.
Both people in the relationship has to work hard at keeping the relationship alive. If not, it will fizzle out.
yes if you only think about yourself the whole time try to open yourself up the your others needs and if that fails then its inevitable
i think all relationships hve their ups and downs.u cant b happy all the time w the other. there r times things will happen to disapoint u. but that doesnt mean its over
Yeah, pretty much. Some take longer than others but yeah, thats how most of them go. That's why you should never get married.
they all get challenging but they don't all go down the drain.
No , but it sure feels like it from time to time !
No. Not at all, I hope.