';Are there any cheaters of relationships out there?

';Are there any cheaters of relationships out there?


';did you ever cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend Why and with who


are you still with that person, does your partner know what was going on if not are you telling them?';Are there any cheaters of relationships out there?
My girlfriend went abroad on an exchange programme to another country and I was left behind for 3 months. When she was away she rarely talked to me and ignored my phone calls/im regularly.





I discovered in IM chat logs to her cousin when she returned that she had cheated - the way it was said it seemed like she did it a lot. She said she would talk about it more with her when they met because the chats where logged.





When I visited there she knew a few more positions in the bedroom and adopted them quickly with me.





My biggest suspicion was the leg wrap position she did - the first time we had sex when I was there as soon as we started she interwove her legs with mine hooking her legs to mine in the ministry position which she had never done before.





She had some new clothes which she used for sex which I had not seen before. Also some flavoured condoms which she gave me blow jobs with, she had never done this before. She also had new dirty talk she used.





Her flat mates (and her?) kept open boxes of condoms with the used condom wrappers still in the drawer in the living room.





She also had a chlamydia test before I arrived.





When looking through photos and videos of her trip when she returned. I discovered in videos suggestions that she had been involved in stripping for guys and giving them blow jobs in front of people in partys. Also from the sound of things she had various opportunities for threesomes, I don't know if she took them. There are a number of flirtatious photos with her kissing men on the cheek touching their thighs etc.





All this though can be taken the other way as only jokes or other circumstances as I was not there. She will never admit any of this to me. While I am sure she cheated I have no idea to what extent, it could be anywhere from a few drunken kisses all the way to threesomes. I also think her friends would cover for her.





I have to live with the knowledge of not knowing as my girlfriend is unwilling to tell me the truth as she is scared I will leave her. If I bring the topic up with her she will get angry, sulk and say I am insecure.





I think if someone does cheat they should be honest with their partner. If the relationship has any chance of survival. Every night the dreams return to haunt me of my girlfriend with other men abroad. I would feel more comfortable knowing 100% exactly what she did there. Currently, my imagination runs wild on me with the various scenarios which I think could have happened.





If you dont want to be with the person please leave them don't cheat it causes your partner pain. Being drunk or on drugs is not an acceptable excuse. If you have cheated talk it through with your partner, eventually the truth will come to light if you don't.





My girlfriend I am sure is faithful to me here which is why I find it hard to believe some of this is true. Thus the reason I stay with her.';Are there any cheaters of relationships out there?
Yep been with my BF 3 years, cheated on him once - big mistake was with his best mate - went on for about 6 months - then couldn't decide who i wanted to be with :( - proper messed up! - decided to stay with my BF been about 2 years since all that - still close to his best m8 tho is that wrong?





Cheating is wrong - it hurts everyone and benefits no one - i was sooo unhappy while i was cheating - now its much better and i love him to pieces.





Feel better now - good question :)
I cheated on my girlfriend when we first started going out about 10 months ago, she found out about it recently.


I did it because i didn't know how much she meant to me, i love her more than anything and i would never do anything to hurt again.
I cheated on my boyfriend once, back in december. I did it because I wasn't thinking properly and it was with my neighbor at the time. Yes he knows, I told him the next day because I felt HORRIBLE. We worked through it and are now engaged.
I havent i dont think lol ?? but whats your def of cheating... what if you hook up with another person but ther person your ';with'; doesnt consider you your relationshi to be exclusive such as girlfriend and boyfriend but you are together
ive been cheated on before and cannot imagine doing something that horrible to another human being. it was absolutely painful.
No I never cheat in a relationships!!
I was just talking about this with my three girlfriends the other day.
Ive never cheated on nobody!
yeah went out with a girl we had a fight and split up went out with her mate and then cheated on her with the first girl





bad i know but in my defense i was young stupid and we still loved each other back then
Me!
yes and i'm proud ofit
yes, do you wanna get together? warning: you will be cheated on...
I cheat on my girlfriend with farm animals. QUACK QUACK!
never would
i dd made it and its my pleasure doin that.