How come in loving relationships, nobody is ever enough for the other person?

because everyone is different and can never be everything the other person will want!


To be happy it takes more than a relationship!How come in loving relationships, nobody is ever enough for the other person?
Yea, you just described a NON-loving relationship. Both people have to care for and be there for and committed to the other in equal amounts for it to truly work. Otherwise it's just a destructive one that will eventually end.





And most of the time when one person blames the other--it's really about them. Something in their life is not going well, or that they haven't figured out, so their mate gets the brunt of that difficulty and problems arise. It can be extremely difficult to separate the real problem from what it appears to be. But if you are committed, and try to ride it out, and support your loved one mentally and emotionally. Perhaps then, after mutual love and support these sorts of difficulties will diminish.





If not, if that mutual love and caring and respect is absent, then this is the wrong person for you.How come in loving relationships, nobody is ever enough for the other person?
Because monogamy is an unnatural construct of society that we force ourselves into (like a too-tight shoe). It seems like it should be easy and natural, because messages from all over imply that it is. But in fact, all relationships are unbalanced like this.





Some people try to pretend that their relationship is not like this, because they believe the messages that you must be in a perfect relationship to be important, happy, or normal. Others haven't yet realized the imbalance, others still recognize it and live with it.
I believe that no two people can ever love each other in equal measure. one person always loves the other a little bit more or less. i don't think that it means they aren't in love, it's just the way it is!! no two people will ever experience the exact same thing, or feel the exact same way about something as someone else does because we're all different! if i were you i would stop thinking about it too much as there will probably never be an answer!!


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because we all want what we dont have, goes for everything includin relationships. we would all prefer the model types before we meet someone. Just got to be happy with what you got cause when its gone you will want it back.





';You Don't Know What You Got Till It's Gone';
I think you mean when you're in a relationship that seems perfect one person ends up not being satisfied?





I think that comes from how the person feels about themselves, and some people like a challenge and drama.
My now ex partner constantly said to me Im not enough for you am I? I think its a sign they want out!! Funnily enough I said to him he was enough for me but he didnt believe me so I dumped him. (among other reasons)
Perhaps, this is due to the idea that - technically, nobody's perfect...
That's not a loving relationship
if it's real love then the other person is more than enough
that makes no sense?