Friday, July 30, 2010

How come girls stay in bad relationships they know wont work just....?

cuz they do love them n want it to work and keep trying and are to scared to give it up n how can they move on or teach themselves to move on ?How come girls stay in bad relationships they know wont work just....?
Hope! Hope he will be the man they want him to be and not the man he already is! Plus the biggest problem is most relationships is a very simple concept.....A man marries or dates a woman hoping she'll never change; and a woman on the other hand see a man flaws and thinks to herself; he's a good man but if I can change a few things or get him to stop doing this then he'll be perfect! Then a the relationship goes on the man never changes and the woman does change mainly because her man didn't!





Example: The man may play a lot of games or likes to party; if he was that way before expect him to be that way for ever! Changing a little but not too much! If you fell in love with it then accept it and ask for smaller changes.


Example: A man finds a woman who he thinks is perfect; she doesn't get mad or doesn't ***** if he hangs with his boys or play his game or parties! Then after she eats the cake or is ready for the next big step then he's not so cute hanging out with his boyz when he should be with her or now he spends too much time gaming or watching football! Now the man needs to realize that being in a relationship is change for him; putting his woman 1st before all others!





If both man and woman would meet in the middle then things might not be so hard! Plus the big one for me the woman has to be a freak in the sheets! It would be a perfect world! Freaks in the sheets rule! ;)How come girls stay in bad relationships they know wont work just....?
Yeah, this is a very confusing question for most people, myself included. I think woman stay in relationship because of the fear of change, as well as the inability to move on like you mentioned and I also think it's because they believe that they have the capabilities to change the outcome of the relationship and make it work. I also think they generally have a strong sense of love and respect for their partner which makes it difficult for them to let go and leave them be (They may love them so much) those and many more reasons are why, but it could be anything which makes it so confusing.
Because there is always somebody ';worse'; out there... Sometimes the current guy doesn't look so bad when you think of it that way.





But there is always somebody better out there... It is scary to think about all the time you have invested in one person more or less going down the drain and starting anew with another person... That's what makes it easy to stay.





I know there are a multitude of other reasons.
Because girls are dumb lol seriously though it's because girls like bad boys, mainly because bad boys have more potential to bring back a mammoth when they go hunting. Though sometimes girls go for smart guys too for the same reason.





Also girls just love drama, even if they say they don't, secretly they totally get off on it because they have so many spare brain cells just for that purpose. that's why they like romantic dramas. It's an adrenaline rush, a sense of being alive.
Sometimes it just the fear of change. When you are use to something it can be hard to try something new even if the old is not good for you. The best thing to do is changing your thinking and believe that you can do better than this here... and move on.
some girls cant because it could be the boy forcing them not to or maybe they like the dude so much and dont see him as nothing else but what they believe he is
Because they enjoy making the same guy look like a jerk again and again

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